Your first step is to accept the fact that you are not able to be good enough for God’s acceptance. God requires perfection to be in His presence. The Bible says that Adam walked with God in the Garden of Eden before the fall. Adam lost that communion after he disobeyed God’s one command. Our disobedience has separated us from God as well.
Many people believe they are good enough. The Bible says that we have ALL sinned. (Romans 3:10)
Your first step is to accept that you have sinned which blocks your communion with God and you need God to help you with your decisions in life.